As a child, newly hailed Miss Universe Catriona Gray grew up shuttling between two countries: Australia, the homeland of her father and the Philippines, the birthplace of her mother. I really felt like I experienced two different worlds,” Catriona told ABS-CBN Lifestyle months before she competed. “In my mind, there were very distinct characteristics to each. The Philippines for me is always associated with very festive family gatherings filled with loud, colorful laughter and a sense of family. Australia, on the other hand, was quiet, slow, and easy going.”
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In many ways, our very first guest editor aka #ABSCBNLifestyleInspo had a very Pinoy upbringing, with her mother instilling the importance of family, finding reasons for happiness every day, and gratitude for the little things in life. She recalls her childhood Philippine visits fondly. “My mom is from a family of 10 siblings and I have all these cousins,” laughed Catriona, further detailing adventures to the local palengke and playing basketball on the roads. “My birthdays are close to Christmas, so I would always celebrate my birthday here.”
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When encountering a lifestyle that is radically different from your own, it is easy to fall into the trap of having a myopic world view. Catriona realized early on that each individual has a unique combination of ideas and personal history. Sadly, there is a natural social pressure to submerge these differences beneath the impulse to conform. “Sometimes, people think that because this is the culture they know, others should know it too,” she shared. “But, that’s not the way to live in this big, messy, beautiful world that we’re in.” Having been exposed to cultures that are disparate from another enabled her to bring something different to the table, a more tolerant and expansive perspective of the world.
“Obviously, everyone doesn’t fall under one umbrella whether it would be their values, their beliefs, their characteristics, their upbringing,” Catriona revealed, “My background enabled me to have a broader outlook of the how the world works. It gave me a keen mindfulness about where people are coming from and to be considerate about it."
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