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In Focus: Here’s Why Girls Shouldn’t Be Afraid To Make The First Move

In Focus: Here’s Why Girls Shouldn’t Be Afraid To Make The First Move

We used to live in a world where guys make the first move, taking in the knight-in-shining-armor role to save their princesses. More often than not, girls play the waiting game: asking guys to prove their undying love first before getting the sweet “I do”. Because that’s how it’s supposed to be, right?

But yay! Women are more empowered now. Gone are the days when girls weren’t encouraged to act first because it was “unladylike”. So ladies, if you like someone, make your move! And here are reasons why you shouldn’t be afraid to do so:

There are guys who don’t know what they’re looking for. Or maybe, they’re just not looking at all. They are simply waiting to feel that special kind of connection with someone. So why not be “the one” who makes that happen?

There are still torpe guys out there. Not all guys are courageous enough to come out and admit their feelings for you. So many things can happen just by asking him out on a ~friendly~ coffee date.

Life’s too short to not say how you feel. Don’t waste your time and wait too long before telling him how you feel. Grab the chance while you can and go for it. You only live once. Make it count.

In this age where we promote women empowerment and gender equality, major adjustments have to be made—like breaking dating “norms”. Get closer than ever with the one you like without reservations. Turn attraction into action. With a ready smile and fresh breath, you’ll always be ready for Closeup moments with the man of your dreams. Don’t worry, you definitely got this!

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Banner photography by Brooke Cagle on Unsplash. GIFs from Giphy.




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